I hear it all the time…
People tell me how they really want to practice martial arts, but they just don’t have the time, the money, or a teacher. They’re too old, too young, or too out of shape.
Sound familiar? If it does, then I have a message I’d like you to remember…
PFFT!
Check out this video to find out why! 🙂
The World Is Your Dojo
When I was a young man, I wanted to learn martial arts, but I didn’t have any money, or the internet, or a car. I didn’t even have a driver’s license. But here’s what I did have… a library card and a punching bag.
Actually, it’s wasn’t even a real punching bag. I found a sack in the basement, filled it with old sheets and clothes, tied it together with a bike lock, and threw it over a rafter in the garage.
And training partners? Just the few friends I could talk into coming over to spar a few rounds.
Now, you may think that training from books in a garage with friends was a waste of time, but you’d be wrong. I learned a lot back then. You know why?
Because a student is a student. If you want to learn, you will find a way to learn.
And if all you can do today is stand up where you are and start throwing some punches, then stand up where you are and start throwing some punches. Just don’t hit anybody.
Of course, training in my garage had its limitations. Especially when my friends stopped answering my phone calls. So, when I finally got my driver’s license, I went out and joined an official school and I’ve been driving all over town and paying good money to take classes ever since. But here’s the funny thing—
—nothing changed!
When I think of all the breakthroughs in my martial arts training, many of the most important lessons were not learned in a dojo. They were learned in campgrounds, coffee shops, parking lots, and church halls.
And even though I’ve been lucky enough to learn from many smart and patient teachers along the way, the truth is I’ve learned just as much talking with family, friends, strangers, jerks, and even kids.
Here’s the point—if you are a real student of the martial arts, you will learn anywhere, anytime, and from anyone. You don’t need to be standing in a dojo or a gym.
Wherever you are right now, that’s your dojo. Whatever you’re wearing right now, that’s your uniform. Whoever you’re with, that’s your teacher. And whatever you’re doing, that’s your lesson.
So, when you can get to class, absolutely, get to class! But when you can’t, don’t let a lack of time, money, transportation, or access stop you from learning and growing.
Every place is a classroom.
Every person is a teacher.
Every moment is a lesson.
If you are a martial artist, approach the day the same as you approach a class. Commit yourself to being your best and fighting with all your heart at all times.
Martial arts is not what you do, it’s who you are. Martial arts isn’t just learning how to fight, it’s learning how to live.
Yes, how you practice on the mats can change how you live off the mats. But it works the other way, too. At least it should!
How you live off the mats should influence how you train on the mats. Each day of your life, you are running drills and being put to the test.
You’re always building your character.
You’re always training your awareness, your sensitivity, your emotional control, your resolve, your decisiveness.
You’re always expressing yourself and managing relationships, which is all a fight really is—a relationship.
When you think about martial arts as a way of life and not just a workout, you realize that the world is your dojo. And that means you never miss a class. In fact, your class is running right now.
So, if you want to be the best you can be, be a student—a good student. Learn everywhere and from everyone.
And the next time you bow out after class, don’t think of it as bowing out of the dojo… think of it as bowing into the world.
I’ve always considered the dojo to be a mini universe. It is very true that the lessons learned on the mat are in essence the same lessons learned off the mat. Two universes coexisting in the same space and time. And that is an idea from one of my favorite teachers, Sensei Einstein.
Einstein… I’m pretty sure I could’ve kicked his ass 😉
The world IS a great teacher. The secret is to be open to it. Thanks for the reminder Sensei Ando !!!
Thank you! That’s why I carry a notebook everywhere! 🙂
Fantastic article sir! Took classes in Chinese Calligraphy years ago and recently re-discovered it. My teacher moved back to China, so I have been teaching myself out of books. Having a great time and learning a lot!
Outstanding! Where there’s a will, there’s a way! Now you can start a tattoo business on the side. 🙂
Ossu! You’re soooo right about where there’s a will, there’s a way. It took a year for me to find a fantastic job that not only pays for my Karate, but is also close to where my kids go to school. To top it all off, my office is next door to a sister dojo where I help out with the class 🙂 That’s the high. The low is the facility that hosts my “home” dojo is no longer willing to accommodate determined advanced students (this is actually the understatement of the year). But – where there’s a will, there’s a way. Right now I’m digesting dinner for a little while, then I’m going to start converting my craft room into a workout room.
I LOVE IT, JO! You’re really converting your craft room into a workout room?! FANTASTIC!
Your martial arts fever is running high. Next up– you’ll wake up at 2:00 AM to knock down the walls between your living room and craft room to create a full dojo! There’s no sopping now! 😀
LOL, I don’t know about knocking down the walls, but that gives me an idea – maybe I could cram the living room into the craft room and have the bigger space for myself, LOL!
Ha! NOW you’re talking!! 😀
It is not that i dont have time for martial arts it is more i can not afford it
Hi Kevin! Start where you are and with what you’ve got. There are lots of people who train without paying for classes. And that was true even before the internet, which makes picking up some drills and techniques easier than ever!
Don’t give up! 🙂
“Do what you can…with what you have…where you are” Theodore Roosevelt
I love that quote. No matter what there’s always a way! It gives people hope, saying no matter how bad your situation, there’s always something you can do.
To me, it’s not the lessons, school or even the style that’s responsible for the positive changes that martial arts can bring to one’s life…it’s the training itself.
Training is the process and by default the “modus operandi” of all greatness.
Entirely too many people in our society put the emphasis on the trophy or award, but the process (i.e the journey or the training) is where I found the formula for success
Peace, Denny
These are such wise words, Denny.
You are totally correct. All of the answers to all of the questions are in the work. The process. It doesn’t really matter where you start or in what style… just start working and you’ll be on your way.
Thanks for the great comment! 🙂
Ando, I am inspired by your indomitable spirit. Thank you such sage advice!
Greg
Hi Greg! I appreciate you taking the time to say hello. Keep fighting! 🙂